What to Wear on a First Date
4 min read · 中文版
Plenty of people try on several outfits before a first date. You don't need designer labels or a makeover. Clean, well-fitting, comfortable and like yourself is the best first-date outfit. Here are some ideas by occasion.
The principle: clean, well-fitting, comfortable, you
Wear clothes you like and feel at ease in, with a little more care than usual: pressed, with colours that go together. Comfortable clothes help you relax and be yourself.
There's no need to dress very formally or provocatively for a first meeting; let them see a genuine, put-together you.
Dress for the occasion
Coffee or brunch: casual but neat, like a clean shirt or knit, well-fitting jeans or a long skirt, and clean shoes. Dinner: a little more polished, like a shirt, a dress or a blazer.
A walk or a hike: sporty but tidy, and comfortable shoes are a must; check the weather and bring a jacket.
Dressing for a Canadian winter
Layer up for a winter date: a warm coat over a sweater or knit you can take off indoors, so you still look good inside.
Wear boots with grip for the walk there; if you're meeting at a restaurant, you can bring a lighter pair of shoes.
Details that matter more than clothes
Neat hair and nails, clean shoes, a light touch of fragrance and arriving on time often leave a stronger impression than the outfit itself.
Dress in a style close to your profile photos so they recognise you straight away; it also shows your profile is genuine.
Frequently asked questions
What should men wear on a first date?
A well-fitting shirt or knit, clean dark jeans or chinos and clean shoes look great. Fit and neatness matter more than brands.
Skirt or trousers for a first date?
Either; choose whatever you're most comfortable and mobile in. If the date involves walking or being outdoors, comfortable shoes matter most.
Do I need to dress up for a first date?
Not into someone else. A little more care than usual, neat and put-together, is plenty.
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