Low-Cost Date Ideas
4 min read · 中文版
A date doesn't have to mean an expensive restaurant. Students, people new to work and couples who are saving can plan lovely dates for very little. How much you spend isn't the point; the thought you put in is.
Outdoors and on foot
Parks, lakeshores, river trails and characterful neighbourhoods: walking and talking is a great date. Bring homemade sandwiches and fruit and it's a picnic.
Sunsets, night views, outdoor rinks in winter and fall colours in autumn: the season itself is a good reason.
Good places in the community
Public libraries often host exhibitions, talks and film screenings, and community centres run all kinds of activities. Many galleries and museums have discounted times; check their websites.
Farmers' markets, seasonal fairs and street music are full of atmosphere just to wander through.
Dates at home
Cook a meal, make dumplings, bake, or each pick a film. Board games and puzzles are great for talking too.
If you've only just met, keep the first meeting in a public place. For more, see our guide to indoor dates.
Be open about your budget
Say it plainly: "I'm saving at the moment. Shall we go for a walk in the park?" Serious people care about the company, not the cost.
On who pays and how to share costs, see our guide to money in relationships.
Frequently asked questions
Will a cheap first date look like I don't care?
No. Coffee and a walk is a very common first date. Being on time and engaged matters more than the price of the place.
My date always wants expensive places I can't afford. What do I do?
Be honest about your budget and suggest alternatives. If they can't understand at all, your attitudes to spending may not match.
Can an anniversary be low-cost too?
Of course. A handwritten letter, a meal you cook or retracing your first date all mean a lot.
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